Divorce Mediation



“When two people decide to get a divorce, it isn't a sign that they "don't understand" one another, but a sign that they have, at last, begun to.” - Helen Rowland


When the decision is made that the marriage is irreparable but it is clear that the issues in dispute renders an uncontested divorce unlikely, consider divorce mediation. At AH Stander Attorneys we have the necessary skills to facilitate mediation between the parties, resolve the issues in dispute and proceed on an uncontested basis. Although mediation is slightly more costly than an ordinary uncontested divorce it is remarkably less costly than litigation.

Should the mediation be successful the divorce proceedings can proceed uncontested and be concluded in a fraction of the time real contested matters take.

One fundamental advantage of mediation versus litigation is that the parties remain in control with mediation. It is not left up to a judge to determine and therefore far less risky. The bonus is also that neither party loses their right to court. At any time during the mediation proceedings one or both parties may look for recourse in the courts through the conventional manner.

Mediation will ensure that the parties retain their sense of pride, self-worth and the relationship with each other where litigation may be extremely emotional and stressful and can literally destroy any future prospect of a healthy relationship between the parties. A result which will have a devastating influence on any minor children involved.

For more information or to schedule a consultation kindly contact:

Office:                         012 346 4103

Rikus Stander             079 840 4717

SD Nel                        082 303 8303